How to Behave When Dating
This info will be great for men who have not visited an escort business previously, and maybe definitely looking at placing an initial phone call. There will be plenty of attractive escorts all across the world who can be your passionate and pleasurable female companions. To create and preserve a great association with an escort it truly is valuable to get knowledgeable about, and apply, very good escort manners. It seems even the escort community includes protocols and should you like to enjoy fine times it is encouraged that you become comfortable with these right from the start.
There's definitely a proper strategy and an incorrect strategy to contact an escort. You will be guaranteed not to ever hear from the woman if you are rude, ask sexually explicit questions, or are disrespectful.
When meeting the date, be level headed and drug and alcohol free. Soon after an escort gets to know you and seems comfortable with you she may well try a glass of wine with you. In short handle the escort just like a lady, with respect and also the way you hope to be treated.
For those away from home, getting together with a female for the length of your excursion will give a gratifying experience. When you like to enjoy a really fine time together with the date, the very first point you ought to know should be to treat her with consideration. The point that she will give you company and sex for money doesn’t necessarily mean that the escort is low class and can be assumed as much. These women recognize precisely what their clients may be like, and they can simply discern a person who has not ever hired an escort before.One can find particular unspoken principles to be recognized in order for everything to go without issues.
The verification method
Wherever you choose to work with an escort, it's hard to omit screening. All escorts must have a little personal information concerning you. the lady uses this information to discover a bit about you. A few ladies may request less info, others may need considerably more. It will be within your interest to go with the flow and reply to all of the woman's many concerns, or you probably will be turned down as being a potential prospect.
The money procedure
After you meet the date at the location you arranged, it's essential to handle the payment well. Most women are going to like to get compensated by cash. Do not attempt to give them checks or present them with credit cards instead of her service fees. An escort most probably will not accept and may leave immediately. A date will want to be paid as soon as they arrive. Go with that wish of theirs. Do not hand them the money right, ladies will not want to be noticed accepting cash. Keep your cash in an envelope which has nothing written on it.
The get together
Whenever hiring a companion, you should do such just yourself. Don’t have your pal stop by once you hire the escort. She will not count on anyone else to be around. If the companion sees your pal with you, she can think you are up to something and wish to partake in embarrassing erotic pursuits. The woman won’t say very much and could just abandon the meeting without delay. If you have invited the woman to your own home, make sure that you do not have a lot of people around. If the escort sees excessive automobiles parked, the date can get dubious and immediately leave.
When you would like the lady friend to entertain you, then it really is your obligation to act decently and make her content. She will probably be more secure opening up with you if you're very good to her. As an example, make an attempt to figure out what your date likes. It could be the escort favors flowers. In that case, buy several of these and present it to her when she gets there. You might consider little stuff to get her cheerful, and in turn the girl might make you pleased.
Once you connect with your date it can be bad etiquette to straight away get straight to discussion about sex. The woman will take it as a rather impolite and unprofessional exhibit and may well become upset. She may not depart because of it, but she will not delight in providing you pleasure. Instead, it is best to have a little food with the woman and engage in a informal chat.
Of Booking and Meeting an Escort
Check out the escort details on her profile page, and if she appeals, read these reviews before make the booking.
When telephoning or book online
Before the date
- Don't call or book online unless you are genuinely interested. Be respectful and friendly towards her and bear in mind that this is a business transaction. Stories concerning your incredible sexual prowess and elephantine manhood are unlikely to arouse her, as she has heard them all before. Bear in mind that if she doesn't feel comfortable talking to you, she won't see you.
- Check how much she charges and what services are included. There is no reason to be overly-graphic, but there is a good reason to make sure that you know what is included and she is prepared to offer the services you are looking for. NEVER haggle over charges... if her prices are too high, then there is nothing wrong with saying that her price is beyond what you had in mind, thank her for her time and then move on. Politeness costs nothing.
- Making smutty telephone calls is not funny or clever... it is infantile and very annoying. You will not get the response you are seeking and will have to pay the call charges as well. If you're really into this kind of thing, call one of the sex lines displayed so prominently in the tabloid press; alternatively save your money and go and buy brown paper packages from your local Porno Shop.
- When speaking to an agency, remember that they are supplying an introduction only. What the girl does or doesn't do on the date is up to her. So don't ask.
Together at last
- Have a shower - paying particular attention to washing your private parts - and clean your teeth... the chances of your date being a willing participant in erotic games with you is directly proportional to your level of personal hygiene. She is unlikely to let you kiss her if your breath smells like Mike Tyson's jockstrap... and she will not be overly enthusiastic about you fumbling around in her expensive lingerie if your finger-nails have the contents of a bag of Irish Moss Peat underneath them.
- Have a shave - not many girls class a "sanding-down" by a glass-paper fizzog as foreplay.
- Put on clean underwear...
- Have the payment ready in cash, unless otherwise agreed, and counted. You have already found out how much it is going to cost, so to spare both of you any embarrassment, make sure the amount is correct and place it in an envelope or separate from the rest of your money
- A brandy to make you randy is OK. Alcohol is a depressant rather than a stimulant and although you may think that it improves your staying power, it is more likely to prevent you from reaching orgasm at all... and beer breath is a turn-off.
The Nitty Gritty
- Be courteous. Offer her a drink... engage in a little chit-chat, treat her like a lady. Don't grope her the moment that she walks through the door. You may be paying for her services, but a little respect will pay dividends later...
- Detailed personal questions should be a no-go area. The Escort is with you under a business arrangement, so don't expect her to tell you her life history or innermost secrets... Under no circumstances ask:
- What does your boyfriend think about your work?
- Do your parents know about your job?
- How much money do you make?
- Do you pay tax?
- Why don't you marry a rich man and forget about this work? etc.
- These are very personal and patronising questions, so don't do it unless you are looking for a very cool performance or equally embarrassing questions in return, like:
- What does your wife do for a living?
- Do your children know that you go out with escorts?
- Does your boss know you're here?
- Have you ever thought about going on a diet?
- Has anyone ever told you that boxer shorts don't suit you?
- You already have the money ready, so at a suitable moment hand her the envelope. Don't get the money out and count it into her hand like a checkout girl at your local supermarket... Don't try and be a smart arse and ask if she accepts Visa and don't try a bit of last minute bartering... it's too late.
REMEMBER: "No" means "NO!!". If you want something that she is unwilling to go for, even if the reviews, or the agency says otherwise... BACK OFF!!! The escort ALWAYS has the final say in what services are available or not to any particular client. Many escorts might be nervous and persuaded into acts that they are not comfortable with. Even with this "permission" this is little more than rape. I'll say it again "No" means "NO!!".
Some advice from a female friend: (Thanks Tamy!)
Close of Play
- BLOWING TOO HARD IN HER EAR. Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there's a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you're trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake. That hurts.
- SQUEEZING HER BREAST. Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and soothe them.
- BITING HER NIPPLES. Why do men fasten onto a woman's nipples, then clamp down like they're trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can't stand up to chewing. Lick and suck them gently. Flicking your tongue across them is good. Pretending they're a doggie toy isn't.
- TWIDDLING HER NIPPLES. Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between finger and thumb like you're trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.
- IGNORING THE OTHER PARTS OF HER BODY. A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs. There are vast areas of her body which you've ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.
- GETTING THE HAND TRAPPED. Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you're going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.
- LEAVING HER A LITTLE PRESENT. Condom disposal is the man's responsibility. You wore it, you store it.
- ATTACKING THE CLITORIS. Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris.
- STOPPING FOR A BREAK. Women, unlike men, don't pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she's not there, keep going at all costs, numb jaw or not.
- UNDRESSING HER AWKWARDLY. Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid's toy.
- GIVING HER A WEDGIE DURING FOREPLAY. Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.
- BEING OBSESSED WITH THE VAGINA. Although most men can find the clitoris without maps, they still believe that the vagina is where it's all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you're trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you're not careful, it can hurt - so don't get carried away. It's best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.
- MASSAGING TOO ROUGHLY. You're attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.
- UNDRESSING PREMATURELY. Don't force the issue by stripping before she's at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it's just undoing a couple of buttons.
- TAKING YOUR PANTS OFF FIRST. A man in socks and underpants is at his worst. Lose the socks first!
- GOING TOO FAST. When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool - she'll soon feel like an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.
- GOING TOO HARD. If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few seconds.
- CUMMING TOO SOON. Every man's fear. With reason. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.
- NOT CUMMING SOON ENOUGH. It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it's more likely the mark of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has something to hold her interest while you're playing Marathon Man.
- ASKING IF SHE HAS COME. You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don't know, don't ask.
- PERFORMING ORAL SEX TOO GENTLY. Don't act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris.
- NUDGING HER HEAD DOWN. Men persist in doing this until she's eyeball-to-penis, hoping that it will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate this. It's about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her.
- NOT WARNING HER BEFORE YOU CLIMAX. Sperm tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everybody likes it. When she's performing oral sex, warn her before you come so she can do what's necessary.
- MOVING AROUND DURING FELLATIO. Don't thrust. She'll do all the moving during fellatio. You just lie there. And don't grab her head.
- MAKING HER RIDE ON TOP FOR AGES. Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying there grunting while she does all the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so that she doesn't feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her have a rest.
- SLAPPING YOUR STOMACH AGAINT HERS. There is no less erotic noise. It's as sexy as a belching contest.
- ARANGING HER IN STUPID POSES. If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed, fine, but don't get too ambitious. Ask yourself if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings.
- LOOKING FOR HER PROSTATE. Read this carefully: Anal stimulation feels good for men because they have a prostate. Women don't.
- NOT CARING WHETHER SHE COMES. You have to finish the job. Keep on trying until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you.
- SQUASHING HER. Men generally weigh more than women, so if you lie on her a bit too heavily, she will turn blue.
- Only play for overtime if you can pay for overtime. Don't expect a "quickie"... don't think that you can carry on pumping away for hours on end until you have had enough. The deal you had was based on time and you agreed it in advance.
- Even if you wish her to stay for longer, bear in mind that she may have prior engagements, so be respectful of those.
- Don't offer to buy her a drink, a meal, suggest going to the cinema and expect her to do so without payment. You may have got on very well, and she may genuinely like you, but business is business and she will prefer it to be kept that way.
- The difference between sex for money and sex for free, is that sex for money often costs a lot less... so don't push your luck...